What is this crazy thing called.....???
Each one of us has its own definition of LOVE. There are also different kinds of Love such as the love for our children or parent love to their children, Love for our friends, love for our hobby, love for our pet, love for our neighbor and many more. Nevertheless, there is also we called love to the opposite sex like your bf/gf or husband/wife. Sometimes for me love is just like an idea or merely word that we give meaning but it change if we want it. You get hurt because you already comfortable with the relation and because of the people that will get affected once the relationship ends especially your kids and family. We fell in love because we choose to let them in to our lives. If you won't allow a person to get involved in your life I'm sure you won't fell inlove with him. That is why I guess there are lots of relationship didn't work out not because they are not meant for each other. It never work out because they choose not to work it out. Oh love, easy to spell but hard to understand. It's only a four letter word but it had broad meaning. Anyway, I found this scientific and unscientific answers to the question What Is Love? I'm sure you will enjoy reading this and give your own personal opinion about it.
Scientific Answers of What Love Is ~
Researchers (Hatfield & Rapson, 1995) have broken up love into two main types:
* Passionate love which involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.
* Companionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.
Now one of the best known theories of love (which means an educated guess that isn't proven fact) is Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love.
The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:
Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone.
Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.
Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time).
Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.
Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship.
Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.
Now Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:
Is there love at first sight?
This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.
Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?
This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.
Can their be love without sex?
Ah yes, companionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.
Why doesn't romantic love last?
Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.
Now, here is the unscientific answers about what love is, check it out if you are familiar with the answers.
Unscientific Answers
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?
* It isn't Love, it's Like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
* It isn't Love, it's Lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
* It isn't Love, it's Luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
* It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
* It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.
Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
* It isn't Love, it's Pity.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
* It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
* It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
* It isn't Love, it's Friendship.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
* It isn't Love, it's a Lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
* It isn't Love, it's Charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
* Then it's Love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
* Then it's Love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
* Then it's Love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
* Then it's Love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
* Then it's Love.
But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
* Then it's Love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
* Then it's Love.
Now, if Love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we Love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
Because it's...
Love
~Author: Unknown
If you want to read more interesting articles about Love... go to the source and you will find more tips about love.
What Is Love from LoveIsGreat.com
Each one of us has its own definition of LOVE. There are also different kinds of Love such as the love for our children or parent love to their children, Love for our friends, love for our hobby, love for our pet, love for our neighbor and many more. Nevertheless, there is also we called love to the opposite sex like your bf/gf or husband/wife. Sometimes for me love is just like an idea or merely word that we give meaning but it change if we want it. You get hurt because you already comfortable with the relation and because of the people that will get affected once the relationship ends especially your kids and family. We fell in love because we choose to let them in to our lives. If you won't allow a person to get involved in your life I'm sure you won't fell inlove with him. That is why I guess there are lots of relationship didn't work out not because they are not meant for each other. It never work out because they choose not to work it out. Oh love, easy to spell but hard to understand. It's only a four letter word but it had broad meaning. Anyway, I found this scientific and unscientific answers to the question What Is Love? I'm sure you will enjoy reading this and give your own personal opinion about it.
Scientific Answers of What Love Is ~
Researchers (Hatfield & Rapson, 1995) have broken up love into two main types:
* Passionate love which involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.
* Companionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.
Now one of the best known theories of love (which means an educated guess that isn't proven fact) is Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love.
The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:
Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone.
Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.
Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time).
Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.
Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship.
Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.
Now Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:
Is there love at first sight?
This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.
Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?
This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.
Can their be love without sex?
Ah yes, companionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.
Why doesn't romantic love last?
Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.
Now, here is the unscientific answers about what love is, check it out if you are familiar with the answers.
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?
* It isn't Love, it's Like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
* It isn't Love, it's Lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
* It isn't Love, it's Luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
* It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
* It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.
Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
* It isn't Love, it's Pity.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
* It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
* It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
* It isn't Love, it's Friendship.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
* It isn't Love, it's a Lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
* It isn't Love, it's Charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
* Then it's Love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
* Then it's Love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
* Then it's Love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
* Then it's Love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
* Then it's Love.
But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
* Then it's Love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
* Then it's Love.
Now, if Love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we Love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
Because it's...
Love
~Author: Unknown
If you want to read more interesting articles about Love... go to the source and you will find more tips about love.
What Is Love from LoveIsGreat.com
I went shopping online last March 15th and it said Same Day Shipping!!. It stated in their policy that when you order before 12 noon your shipping will get right at your door on the same day. And if you order after their cut off time your order will arrive the next day. So, I ordered on the 15th and its already March 22 but my order hasn't arrived yet. Where did they ship my order, I was just wondering. The "Same Day Shipping!!" was a bogus. I am not a complainer but if that shipping don't get on my mail today or tomorrow I will email them. I really don't know where and how to report this kind of problem.
Just tp update this post, the package arrived yesterday, so thats cool.
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Another interesting article that I read online. If you sometimes question yourself of all the misfortune in your life and why luck is not always in your side well today is your lucky day. This post is all about luck and what luck exactly is. How can you change your luck?
Webster's Dictionary defines luck as "a force that brings good fortune or adversity," or "the events or circumstances which operate for or against an individual." Considering this definition, it's no wonder then that so many people believe luck is out of their control ... that our fates are karmic or energetic -- and they are.
According to S.K. Smith one of the psychic that we create our own luck and whether you know it or not, you can do it in very practical terms; whether it comes to money or love or anything else! Here's how it works:
Always Be Prepared
Yes, your mother (and the Boy/Girl Scouts) told you this, but did you really listen? There's an old saying, "luck happens when opportunity meets preparation." In really basic terms, it's that you can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket. Unfortunately, the lotto is hardly the best way to get ahead. For starters, it's energetically empty, and one of those rare, true games of chance (ever wonder why so many winners wind up broke again before they know it?). That said, if you want to win the lottery in life, it is true that you've got to put yourself in the contest. The chance of a lifetime can come your way at any point -- but if you're not ready for it, you'll miss out on what could have been your lucky break.
Work It
For instance, if your friend comes to you with an amazing real estate opportunity, if you don't have the money saved, you can't 'get lucky' when they invite you to invest. Likewise, if you're single, but you're busy pining for an ex you might not notice your perfect match staring right at you in the present. You'll miss the signs, thinking you're just unlucky in love. Consider the quarterback who wins the Super Bowl -- depending on the game, he's often considered lucky. But if you stop and think about the amount of hard work and discipline that went into his entire career, whether he's a rookie or a veteran, this has been a lifetime commitment. No matter the circumstances of the game, how anyone else played, or even if he caught a few breaks along the way, he did the work (preparation) that created a chance at 'good fortune.'
Three Ways to 'Get Lucky'
Of course, most of us aren't professional athletes. But we can still take a cue from people who are playing at the top of their game, no matter which game they're playing! If you want to find good fortune in any arena, the most important thing you can do is to prepare for it. The following are a few solid tips for improving your 'luck:'
1. Take care of yourself - inside and out: Without your health (or your sanity!), achieving any goal will be a lot harder and a lot less likely to come to fruition.
2. Know what you want - and get informed: If you're looking for financial security, seek the advice of a professional financial advisor (or two) - and then heed it. If you want to find love, practice loving yourself. When you become the person you want to be, your odds of attracting an ideal mate multiply.
3. Be grateful - and proactive: As with so many things, those who are generally happy -- and grateful for the things they do have -- are more likely to find themselves in situations where change is possible. Allowing yourself to be complacent (stuck!) doesn't invite good luck, rather it maintains the status quo. By taking the practical steps to create change, you will find that the tides will eventually turn in your favor.
Webster's Dictionary defines luck as "a force that brings good fortune or adversity," or "the events or circumstances which operate for or against an individual." Considering this definition, it's no wonder then that so many people believe luck is out of their control ... that our fates are karmic or energetic -- and they are.
According to S.K. Smith one of the psychic that we create our own luck and whether you know it or not, you can do it in very practical terms; whether it comes to money or love or anything else! Here's how it works:
Always Be Prepared
Yes, your mother (and the Boy/Girl Scouts) told you this, but did you really listen? There's an old saying, "luck happens when opportunity meets preparation." In really basic terms, it's that you can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket. Unfortunately, the lotto is hardly the best way to get ahead. For starters, it's energetically empty, and one of those rare, true games of chance (ever wonder why so many winners wind up broke again before they know it?). That said, if you want to win the lottery in life, it is true that you've got to put yourself in the contest. The chance of a lifetime can come your way at any point -- but if you're not ready for it, you'll miss out on what could have been your lucky break.
Work It
For instance, if your friend comes to you with an amazing real estate opportunity, if you don't have the money saved, you can't 'get lucky' when they invite you to invest. Likewise, if you're single, but you're busy pining for an ex you might not notice your perfect match staring right at you in the present. You'll miss the signs, thinking you're just unlucky in love. Consider the quarterback who wins the Super Bowl -- depending on the game, he's often considered lucky. But if you stop and think about the amount of hard work and discipline that went into his entire career, whether he's a rookie or a veteran, this has been a lifetime commitment. No matter the circumstances of the game, how anyone else played, or even if he caught a few breaks along the way, he did the work (preparation) that created a chance at 'good fortune.'
Three Ways to 'Get Lucky'
Of course, most of us aren't professional athletes. But we can still take a cue from people who are playing at the top of their game, no matter which game they're playing! If you want to find good fortune in any arena, the most important thing you can do is to prepare for it. The following are a few solid tips for improving your 'luck:'
1. Take care of yourself - inside and out: Without your health (or your sanity!), achieving any goal will be a lot harder and a lot less likely to come to fruition.
2. Know what you want - and get informed: If you're looking for financial security, seek the advice of a professional financial advisor (or two) - and then heed it. If you want to find love, practice loving yourself. When you become the person you want to be, your odds of attracting an ideal mate multiply.
3. Be grateful - and proactive: As with so many things, those who are generally happy -- and grateful for the things they do have -- are more likely to find themselves in situations where change is possible. Allowing yourself to be complacent (stuck!) doesn't invite good luck, rather it maintains the status quo. By taking the practical steps to create change, you will find that the tides will eventually turn in your favor.
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It arrived yesterday both my orders from Charlotte Russe and Sears. I bought couple of working shirt from hubby. They have plenty of sales in their display for $4 but when I clicked on it, its out of order so I ended up buying the pricey one. Now Im waiting for more package in two other shopping sites. Hope it will arrive soon.
If you are updated with fashion I'm pretty sure you already seen the twisted balloons Fashion. You can see dresses made out of twisted balloons. I think you just have to watch out those balloons won't pop or else ???? hehehe. These balloons dresses looks so fabulous and very original kind of fashion. View the 40 Inflatable Items from Blow-Up Wedding Gowns, animal costume to Inflatable Churches dresses at SecondDose gallery.
Having a nice, fresh, clean blog layout will invite people to keep coming at your site and perhaps follow or leave some comments. I have been blogging for more than a year now and still not satisfied with the look in some of my blogs. I have been browsing around of some blog designers portfolio and compare prices for quite some time now. I love their designs but I can't afford with the prizes. I always admired all of lady Java's creation ever since I started blogging in Today.com and blogspot. LadyJava is the one who designed blogs of some bloggers that is known and popular in the blogworld. She has a very professional, clean, original and fresh looking blog creation. Well, people if you love Lady Java creations now is the great chance to get a blog makeover from her for free. Enter her blog makeover giveaway in celebration of her birthday and wedding anniversary this month. The giveaway will end on March 25, 2010 and winner will be chosen via random.org. So hurry now and give you blog a fresh and new look.
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I wonder if there is one people existed live a life free from stress everyday. I don't think so. Life itself is stressful. Money problems may cause major stress and we all need money. If other people don't need money I'm sure they get stress thinking how to spend their money. Our world, the war here and there can cause stress. Our everyday needs and responsibility can stress us also. Perhaps there is a times or days that we don't get stress and thats a good thing. So to avoid getting stress or atleast relieve some of your stress here are few tips for you.
TIPS:
1.Eat Right and Exercise
2.Set Realistic Goals
3.Handle Important Tasks First and
4.Eliminate Unessential Tasks
5.Take a Break and Meditate to Slow
6.Down Your Mind
7.Reduce the Urge to be "Perfect"
8.Be Flexible
9.Avoid Excess Competition
10.Reduce Criticism
11.Don't Stress When Expectations Are
Not Met
12.Manage Your Anger
13.Push Away Negativity of Any Kind
14.Give Yourself "Me" Time
15Choose to Keep Quiet When You Feel
a Knee-Jerk Reaction Coming On
16.Be Cheerful, it Deflates Others Stress
and Anxiety
17.Silence Your Phone at Night
18.Dab Scented Oils, Cologne or Perfume
on Your Wrist to Sniff as an
Aromatherapy Reminder to Relax When
you Feel Stressed
19.Utilize Relaxation Techniques; Yoga,
Meditation, Breathing, Stretching
20.Laugh More, and Often
Monitor Your Communication Skills. Remember You Can Only Change Yourself.
"TRUE PEACE COMES FROM HUMBLE SUFFERING" I read this beautiful message this morning in my sister wall at facebook when I checked this morning. It is indeed true in many ways. Let us make our lives as peaceful as we can in one way or another. Peace Brother!
TIPS:
1.Eat Right and Exercise
2.Set Realistic Goals
3.Handle Important Tasks First and
4.Eliminate Unessential Tasks
5.Take a Break and Meditate to Slow
6.Down Your Mind
7.Reduce the Urge to be "Perfect"
8.Be Flexible
9.Avoid Excess Competition
10.Reduce Criticism
11.Don't Stress When Expectations Are
Not Met
12.Manage Your Anger
13.Push Away Negativity of Any Kind
14.Give Yourself "Me" Time
15Choose to Keep Quiet When You Feel
a Knee-Jerk Reaction Coming On
16.Be Cheerful, it Deflates Others Stress
and Anxiety
17.Silence Your Phone at Night
18.Dab Scented Oils, Cologne or Perfume
on Your Wrist to Sniff as an
Aromatherapy Reminder to Relax When
you Feel Stressed
19.Utilize Relaxation Techniques; Yoga,
Meditation, Breathing, Stretching
20.Laugh More, and Often
Monitor Your Communication Skills. Remember You Can Only Change Yourself.
"TRUE PEACE COMES FROM HUMBLE SUFFERING" I read this beautiful message this morning in my sister wall at facebook when I checked this morning. It is indeed true in many ways. Let us make our lives as peaceful as we can in one way or another. Peace Brother!
Are you having a bad hair day? Follow this quick fix I read at shine.com. Don't let your hair ruin your day, give it a fix!
Try these quick fixes from celebrity hairstylist Alyn Topper, of Bravo's Blowout.
1. Turn up the heat.
Tame any frizzy spots with a curling iron.
2. Take a dry shower.
Degrease hair by adding a little baby powder or dry shampoo (available at drugstores), then brush.
3. Make bangs behave.
Mist them with water; then, instead of brushing, blow-dry and use your fingers to flatten.
Still not working? Lift hair off your face for instant glamour. Rachael Ray's style pal, Gretta Monahan, suggests pulling a 2- to 3-inch section (use your eyebrow arches as markers) to the top of your head, leaving a little bump so it’s not taut. Then, place the bobby pins in an “X” shape to secure. Finish with a shot of hairspray.
Illustrations by Aaron Meshon
Try these quick fixes from celebrity hairstylist Alyn Topper, of Bravo's Blowout.
1. Turn up the heat.
Tame any frizzy spots with a curling iron.
2. Take a dry shower.
Degrease hair by adding a little baby powder or dry shampoo (available at drugstores), then brush.
3. Make bangs behave.
Mist them with water; then, instead of brushing, blow-dry and use your fingers to flatten.
Still not working? Lift hair off your face for instant glamour. Rachael Ray's style pal, Gretta Monahan, suggests pulling a 2- to 3-inch section (use your eyebrow arches as markers) to the top of your head, leaving a little bump so it’s not taut. Then, place the bobby pins in an “X” shape to secure. Finish with a shot of hairspray.
Illustrations by Aaron Meshon
Grey Studded Round Toe Velvet Ballet Flats $12.99
My sandal that I shop online just arrived last week. It is so cute and I'm loving it. I am so ready for spring and summer. The sandal is so light and comfortable to use. Although the price is kind the pricy for me hehe but hey, it's worth it. Start shopping now for your spring and summer wardrobe.